Young. Twenty-something. Full of energy, excitement, and the strong desire to change everything that you see around in the world. That’s why I got into this library thing and that’s how I started on this path.
But time passes, moves forward, and things change. I’ve started to slow down a bit. I’ve stopped thinking about the big things all of the time and start to look up and see little things like birds chirping, grass growing, etc. I watch my two sons Finn and Aero as they grow from little babies to dapper young men who have unique personalities and ideas about the world. I see the energy that I used to have in them. I see them thinking about the big ideas and how they can possibly change them.
I grow older with my amazing wife Haley. She’s my best friend and my partner in everything that happens from day to day. We make the big decisions (where do we wanna live?) and the small decisions (do we want to get rid of all of our couches and get bean bags for our whole house?) every day. We grow together and we have fun doing it. There have been ups and there have been downs. But we do it all together and it is an amazing ride. I now understand the whole best friend thing.
What has happened to the librarian part of my brain is kind of remarkable…it kind of went away. That’s not to say that I’m done with being a librarian. I still have a lot in me. But that ever nagging feeling to be the best librarian in the entire solar system is….well it’s gone. It’s been replaced by a steady sense of calm and understanding. I am just a human being whose is first and foremost a husband and a father. The librarian thing? It’s a great way to connect with the community and have an impact on the world. It also pays the bills, and that is very important too. It is not everything. But it is something.
My best “library programs” these days happen at my home with my family. We watch movies together. We record songs together (see the photo above). We cook, clean, and eat as a family. We learn together. Our home has become not only the place where we rest our heads and hang out hats, but our library/school/college/community center/etc. It is our “third place”.